My group is made up of retirees, but don’t think that means we aren’t looking for nightlife. We also are looking for a place with some nearby outdoor activities like hunting, fishing, and maybe kayaking. (Not sure what’s around there.) Finally we would like to try a great Caribbean restaurant.
Definitely Tulsa.
Tulsa has rivers lakes, big forested hills, two really good art museums, and art-deco architecture from the oil boom.
Wichita has wheat fields.